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Bemidbar 5765

Parshat Bemidbar
(Hosea 2:1-22)
June 4, 2005

Hosea struggles with the tremendous difficulty of maintaining the relationship between God and the people of Israel. Their bond was filled with ups and downs, fealty and disloyalty. The last lines of the haftarah attempt to express a means for rapprochement, based upon the model of the commitments made in marriage: \”And I will espouse you forever: I will espouse you with righteousness and justice and with goodness and mercy. And I will espouse you with faithfulness; then you will be devoted to the Lord.\” (Hosea 2:21—22) Hosea meant that God would bring these qualities as \”wedding gifts\” in the proposed marriage between God and Israel.

The following midrash reads the interaction between God and Israel found in these verses in a totally different fashion: Said Rabbi Shimon ben Halafta: \’To what can this be compared: To a king who married a noble woman. She brought to the marriage two precious pieces of jewelry (arisim). The king, in return, also presented her with two precious jewels. The matron lost her jewels and the king subsequently took his jewels back. Time passed and the matron made herself deserving once again and found the two jewels. The king also returned his two jewels to her. The king then said: Both your jewels and my jewels would make a fine crown for you as queen to wear and so he took the jewels and placed them on her head as a crown.

So, too, we find with regard to Abraham. He gave his sons (Ishmael and Isaac) two jewels, as it is written: \”For I (God) have singled him (Abraham) out, that he may instruct his children and his posterity to keep the way of the Lord by doing what is just (tzedakah) and right (mishpat)\”. (Genesis 18:19). God, in turn, responded and gave two jewels, loving-kindness (hesed) and mercy (rahamim), as it is written: \”the Lord your God will maintain for you the covenant and the loving kindness (hesed)\” (Deut. 7:12) and as it is written: \”and He will show you compassion, and in His compassion increase you.\” (Deut. 13:18) The people of Israel (in their transgressions) lost their \”jewels\”, as it is written: \”You have turned justice into a poison weed and the fruit of righteousness into wormwood.\” (Amos 6:12) As a consequence, God, also, repossessed his jewels: \”For I have withdrawn My favor from that people, declares the Lord, My kindness and compassion\” (Jeremiah 16:5)

But the people of Israel mended their ways and replaced their two jewels, as we read: \”Zion will be redeemed in justice (mishpat), her repentant ones in righteousness (tzdakah)\” (Isaiah 1:27) and God, in kind, replaced his two jewels: \”For the mountains will move and the hills shake, but my loving-kindness will not budge from you…said God, who is merciful with you.\” (Isaiah 54:10) After both parties brought their jewels together, God said: My jewels and your jewels will serve as your crown and He put them on the head of the people of Israel, as it is written: \”And I (God) betroth you (Israel) to Me forever; and I betroth you to Me in righteousness and in justice and in loving-kindness and mercy. And I betroth you to Me in faithfulness and then you will be devoted to God.\” (Hosea 2:21-2) (adapted from Devarim Rabbah 3:7)

This midrash plays on the similarity between the word \”v\’aarasteech – and I betrothed\” and a Greek loan word which sounded similar \”arisin – jewel\”. (see Jastrow dictionary p. 120) to produce a profound message. The closing verses of this week\’s haftarah, which are also recited when we wrap the tefillin straps around our fingers each morning, are a sign of the reciprocal relationship between God and the people of Israel. Just as in human relationships, there is an expectation of shared responsibility and joint concern, so, too, in our relationship with God. Donning tefillin, a betrothal ceremony of sorts between God and the Jewish people should act as a daily reminder of this important idea.

About This Commentary

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